He’s always wore sketchers. Like since he was 4. Recently, he got really emotionally taking about shoes he wanted for middle school. He said if he doesn’t get Nikes he’s going to get teased. Great fucking marketing work Nike.

  • @Bloomcole@lemmy.world
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    -310 hours ago

    Who knows if it’s true. Kids can lie/exaggerate when they want stuff.
    If it is true then wtf kind of school is this? I would go have a talk.
    What if some other parent couldn’t afford them? Will he let his kid join the mob mentality and bully him?
    This goes further than shoes.
    Just buying the stuff to get done with it and letting this toxic environment fester is def not the right move.
    But fuck it, I’m not raising his kid.

    • @HereIAm@lemmy.world
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      05 hours ago

      If you think social bullying like this is some kind of rare thing I got some terrible news for you.

      It goes far beyond just having pricey clothing, kids these days are bullied for not spending money in Fortnite. https://partner.sciencenorway.no/bullying-children-and-adolescents-computer-games/fear-being-bullied-children-pay-to-become-popular-in-video-games/2307469

      It’s bad, even in countries like the UK where they have dress codes to try and address it, you’ll still he picked in for not having the right accessories.

      • @Bloomcole@lemmy.world
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        02 hours ago

        It’s not rare, never said that.
        My point is you should do something about it, not give in like this AH.
        He is part of the problem pushing the problems to kids ho can’t afford it.
        Fuck them. WTF is with all these egocentric comments?

    • @Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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      07 hours ago

      I remember being a target of bullying in middle school. I specifically lobbied the school for months to get an alternative to recess because that’s when the worst of the bullying occurred. I was finally given permission to just chill in an empty classroom during that time and it was a significant improvement.

      If spending a bit more on shoes helps give the kid some confidence it seems like a reasonable step to take. Maybe the kid will learn it was never about the shoes to begin with.

      The fact is, middle school fucking sucks and the most parents can do is try to help their kids survive however they can. I still remember what one parent said to me once “middle school is the lowest circle of hell” and it was exactly what I needed to hear in that moment

      • @Bloomcole@lemmy.world
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        11 hour ago

        So don’t adress the problem but give in, right.
        And fuck the ones who can’t afford those shoes and get bullied.
        You’re part of the problem, disgusting to hear that

        • @Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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          110 minutes ago

          Bruh chill out. Do you really think that was an appropriate reaction to a comment by some rando on the internet?