I dump wealthy friends who are codependent on me for no other reason than exploiting my labor and skill. I knew a Polish anarchist who will not do the dish and share the weed or food, use the excuse of autism for everything, but gaslit me that I’m not anxious enough to be AuDHD despite I was diagnosed, always drinking until blackout, but those aren’t even my real complaints. Their sibling went to prestige university for free without scholarship or loan, just to study humanities, both of them each inherited a home. Their mom gave them each her own cards. When they injured themselves slipping on the ice during drunk, the only fucker who brought them to hospital was me, the only person who traveled half the city to their place just to save them. They liked me because I was a hacker, not any hacker but the one that useful for anti-fascist and direct action shit. Then during a drunk ass conversation they admitted their grandpa might have been a Nazi and I noped the fuck out since then. My brown ass was so close to be burned by a descendant of class traitors. I ghosted them and never return.
Meanwhile I dumpster dive, forage and shoplift for food. Countless times I went to action or organizing meeting while I starved. I give and give and give, to the point my own parents said I was a stupid ass being exploited. I live on disability support and with minimal part-time income, while I built a mutual aid group that feed tent camps. I live with just 1K per month yet still have extra to help thousands of people for most of my life. I think bourgeoisie are disgusting, dishonest and disgraceful people who never stop exploiting society, their only stop is the wall.
I wouldn’t be friends with that kind of person because even when I have a lot of money, I don’t want to spend it on things I view as wasteful. Incompatible values.
CW Alcoholism, dumping a friend.
I once had to dump a very good friend because of their ongoing alcoholism and lack of any willingness to deal with it or accept help. It was heartbreaking but I just cant have people around me who will randomly just lose it and drink themselves in a coma and call me a day later to lie about it. They accused me of dumping them for being not being as successful as I am. I told them its okay to think that and if they ever wanted to deal with their alcoholism i would join them at any meeting but they said “i called AA and thet said i have no problem”.
wo cao
