• Stern@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Do you never want booty call requests again? Because that is a great way to make that happen, though maybe your relationship is just like that idk.

    I’d hit 'em with something like, “I’d love to but work is kicking my ass lately sry bb”

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      3 months ago

      But yes you’re right, if I say that to him he’ll never contact me again, but either way I have to say no because I need to work to survive, and his booty call requests always happen on weekends, and I’m never available on weekends.

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      3 months ago

      Thank you for your honest take. This is a tricky one because he’s smokin’ hot & he apparently thinks I am too but of course like most people these days shows no indication of wanting a commitment or even contacting me more than once in a long while …

      And also like most men he always cums and like many women, I never do, so really I’m just like some disposable treat to him, which drains my life force & joy, so really at this point he should be compensating me monetarily if he’s just going to keep treating me like an unpaid prostitute, right?? 😭

      Or people need to straighten the hell out & learn how to love & respect each other so we don’t all end up feeling like trashy used commodities 😢