• Chestnut@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    Irl I often repeat what other people say in my own words and ask them if that’s what they believe. It both helps me understand where they’re coming from and confirm I get them

    On the Internet I almost never do.

    Communication is a two way street. You can be as explicit as you want but if people are trying to win an argument instead of have a discussion they’re going to misconstrue what you’re saying more often than not.

    • intensely_human@lemm.ee
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      2 years ago

      So what you’re saying is you make shit up and then when people deny it, you look at them all smug like “I told you so”?