@MashedTech@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world • 11 months agoThis is good stufflemmy.worldimagemessage-square44fedilinkarrow-up1401arrow-down128
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minus-square@Katana314@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglish20•11 months agoThe true path of faking it till you make it isn’t to gain a significant other, but to become emotionally settled enough that you don’t even need one.
minus-square@saigot@lemmy.calinkfedilink13•11 months agoWhich, when done in earnest, is ironically usually the best thing you can do to raise your chances of getting a partner.
minus-square@lightnsfw@reddthat.comlinkfedilink7•11 months agoBut now I don’t want a partner because they’ll throw off the delicate level of being okay with myself that I’ve achieved.
minus-square@warbond@lemmy.worldlinkfedilink7•11 months agoMaking you that much more attractive! It’s a vicious cycle!
minus-square@Katana314@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglish3•11 months agoTurning down a potential partner is certainly known to make you 10x more desirable.
The true path of faking it till you make it isn’t to gain a significant other, but to become emotionally settled enough that you don’t even need one.
Which, when done in earnest, is ironically usually the best thing you can do to raise your chances of getting a partner.
But now I don’t want a partner because they’ll throw off the delicate level of being okay with myself that I’ve achieved.
Making you that much more attractive! It’s a vicious cycle!
Turning down a potential partner is certainly known to make you 10x more desirable.