This is a judgment-free zone, no poor shaming pls.

    • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
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      To me, living at your dorm and crashing at your parent’s house during breaks is pretty much living on your own with training wheels. It counts until you’re out of school.

      • 「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOP
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        4 months ago

        living at your dorm

        You don’t know how non-independent you are until the separation anxiety sets in.

        Yes, the separation anxiety is still a thing even if your parents are emotionally abusive.

        The wonders of being trauma-bonded with your abusers lol.

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        For me it comes down to who is paying rent. If you’re working/ taking out loans, you’re on your own. If mom and dad are footing the bill for room and board, you’re kind of living at home with extra steps

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          Good point. I guess there’s a scale. I know I didn’t have any money to spend that wasn’t in my pocket, but there were others that may have well been at a resort.