• 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
    17·
    11 days ago

    i won’t disagree about it being a violation of a the relationships boundaries.

    but if your monogamous partner has consentual sex with someone else, you can get upset, but that doesn’t mean he raped you by having sex without your consent.

    • village604English
      10·
      11 days ago

      Where are you getting rape from? That’s not even remotely what’s being discussed.

      • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
        16·
        11 days ago

        you said that the problem in cheating is that the third party didn’t consent. no one needs a third party consent for sex,

        • village604English
          7·
          11 days ago

          I said no such thing. I said cheating inherently means that the person being cheated on is not ok with it happening.

          That has absolutely nothing to do with rape or consenting to sex.