• village604
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    2 days ago

    Wouldn’t that technically mean she’s raping you?

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        1 day ago

        It was a tongue-in-cheek comment about people who legitimately believe that a woman has been raped if she changes her mind during, but never relays that information to the man.

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            1 day ago

            You straight up said it’s not ok to tell a woman that you’re no longer interested in sex.

            Having sex when you don’t want to because you feel pressured into it is generally considered SA when it happens to a woman.

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              1 day ago

              Nothing wrong with talking about expectations prior to banging.

              In theory - yes. But in practice it would be rude and / or ruining the moment.

              Much more rude to tell a woman you don’t want to fuck her after she’s taken her clothes off.

              Since reading comprehension has escaped you here - I said it’s more rude to share you won’t fuck hairy women after clothes are off. It is a better idea to be upfront about how you can’t get your dick hard unless a woman is hairless rather than share that after clothes have already come off.

              I said absolutely fucking NOTHING about rape or forcing people to have sex they don’t want.