empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com to Showerthoughts@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 months agosome artists make songs about sex that last longer than they do during actual sexmessage-squaremessage-square4linkfedilinkarrow-up146arrow-down15file-text
arrow-up141arrow-down1message-squaresome artists make songs about sex that last longer than they do during actual sexempireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com to Showerthoughts@lemmy.worldEnglish · 2 months agomessage-square4linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squareSnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up18·2 months agoEverything surrounding sex takes more time and effort than sex itself.
minus-squarevillage604linkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·2 months agoThat is really dependent on multiple variables.
minus-squareempireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.comOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·2 months agoWhich is fine. Nobody wants 10 straight minutes of monotonous pounding. Thats just going to make everyone sore. Ideal ratio is about 15-30min of foreplay and edging with 5min of intercourse imo. Then cuddling after.
Everything surrounding sex takes more time and effort than sex itself.
That is really dependent on multiple variables.
Which is fine. Nobody wants 10 straight minutes of monotonous pounding. Thats just going to make everyone sore.
Ideal ratio is about 15-30min of foreplay and edging with 5min of intercourse imo. Then cuddling after.